Feeling left out

Everyone has felt left out once, and it happened to me several times.In that period you feel betrayed, neglected, rejected and you lose faith in yourself.
I know why I was ignored by other people...and this story is connected with my post about "Friends" and "Loneliness".
So, two days ago I have met a girl and I thought that it would be a good opportunity to make friends, and I was being myself  in front of her.But it established that she didn't like me the way I really am.And she was brave to tell me that, and to tell me that I make a lot  mistakes although she just had met me...That made me think, do I really need to change?Do I need to act like another person? Also, am I doing something that keeps away others? Million questions but there's no answer...
People get ignored all the time.I don't care if you are black or white, or you are poor or rich, if you are nice to me then I will be nice to you.I think that this is what people need to do, only then we will build peace between people.
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Sometimes the person that tries to keep everyone happy, is the most loneliest person

It can be our friends, or just one person that we want to see smile everyday.It doesn't mean that we want to make him/her laugh,it's just that we want to do something that he/she wants us to do.

Sometimes I just do that too,I don't know  if I want to make them happy or want them to see me as a good person.

But, I can also do the opposite.I often get bored of just helping others when I need help.When others notice that something is wrong with me they ask me why, when I tell them the problem they try to comfort me with stupid things.It just feels like they are happy with the problem that I have and want me to see it.

Also, I realised that we need to be careful with who are we helping, because there are some people that don't know how to say "thank you" and they can use you too.

People are not the same,so there are some that love to tease and make you mad a little bit.I get mad easily and that's what I hate about myself,whenever  someone tells me something bad I get kind of sad and just ask myself is that true what he/she said to me?

That's not right and I can't escape from it,but I wish I can..I describe myself as a girl who is weak,I mean I cry about little things and also at some moments I can't stand for myself.When you look at others and see that they just ignore "irrelevant" people, you just wish you were more like them and at some point  you just want to become bad.But that's impossible and not alright because that's not who you want to be.

We can't change bad people by doing what they do,I think that we can just talk to them if it doesn't work then try to ignore them.And if we are not satisfied with ourselves or we think we are irrelevant at some way we just need to think that there is someone who likes our behaviour and who wants to be like us.

Meaning of life

I have been looking at my blog  and realised  that I mostly write about negative than  positive things.
Of course, when you are sad or angry you want someone to advise you and just talk about good things in life.
So,I though why just not write this post about good things that are going on.
As I said in one of my posts,we need to be thankful for all that we have.Life is short so small problems shouldn't bother us,we all need to relax and let ourselves free.
There is always someone who will listen to us, a friend,member of the family, even a stranger.
Challenges and problems are what make life interesting.
When we don't feel alright we just want problems to go away and we want a perfect life, although we know that,that kind of life doesn't exist.
Think about how it will be without challenges, we probably wouldn't know the meaning of the life,also we wouldn't know how strong are we to deal with them.
Overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.Just remember,you are not alone in any situation!

Be yourself!

Be yourself.Everyone else is taken.

I found this quote today, and it is really inspiring,I found myself in it too.

I think that we all change ourselves sometimes,when we notice that someone doesn't like out attitude,we just want to find a solution to make them like us.

But of course that is bad,because we don't live to act the new us, and everyone needs love and someone they can thrust to and they can care about.

So that means finding someone that we can talk about everything with, and just not care if we are going to say something wrong, I think it is all about being relaxed.

Today,people don't go out together that much ,they communicate by phones and other social networks  more, and that includes me too.

I hate that fact,and I think that sometimes we all want to throw our phones away, because we just want to see who is really there for us.

So,the point of this post is just to remind some people that not everybody is going to like you, but also not to change yourself only because to make someone like you!