Loneliness and self-confidence

Lately,there was a lot of going on my mind...
Lonely,yeah that's how I would describe it.I don't know how that feeling comes,it's kind of strange,but I just felt like nobody understands me...
Also,I hate the fact that I don't have self-confidence..Like if I talk to somebody or I am in school and I have an idea or something I won't tell it,I would just keep it in myself,because I am afraid,afraid that people will judge me or think that I am stupid.
I don't know,but I think that all people with this kind of problem need someone  who will teach them how to build confidence.
Back to the lonely-feeling.I feel guilty,because I have family beside me,and the feeling can be compared like I was ungrateful to have them .That's it!I have too much and I ask for more,that can not be right!
So, every time we have to be thankful for everything that we have because there is always someone that doesn't have anything.
-Please comment and just feel free to tell me that you think about this.And also if you have a problem it will be a pleasure to me to help you! :-)

Social life

The feeling was crazy,only because I refused to do what she was doing made me some kind of coward.

She had a boyfriend,despite she was very young,she smoked,drink  and she was popular girl in my school, and yeah that's what she expected that I would do too.

I had no friends then,I don't know why people supported her so much,maybe because she was in relationship with a bad boy or also maybe because they were scared that she will do something that she did to me.I had only my sister who I am really thankful for  everything she had done for me.

My sister told me that everything what was going on will stop and yeah that's what really happened.

Everyone got bored of her selfishness, and soon fear of her had stopped.

Today,she is nothing but ashamed for everything she had done.

-I shared my story with you because I know there are teenagers out there who are doing something by force,and friends like this girl in my story is not someone you can be friends with!

A real friend is someone who appreciates something  you don't want to do   and sticks  up for you when you are being put down! :-) 

How to survive bullying?

Kicking,swearing,bullying is something that we all do,well not everybody but you know what I mean...
As I said,nobody is perfect,so we all make mistakes but we also repent.
-There are people who feel stronger when they make other people feel bad and bully them..I just think that they do it because of jealousy or if you are physical different than other people,also they want other people to feel scared of them because they are too weak.If you know someone like this and he/she is making you feel bad than you just have to ignore them and just surround yourself with good people! Also if that bullying has crossed the boarder than you should ask for help,and also talk to your parents!
-I say some bad stuff to people too, if I am angry and in bad mood but I apologize to them, and that's what makes you a better person , so people remember things like that and they just become closer to you so what I am saying is all what we do and say there is always an apology and story behind that ,and if we have some problems we can just be nice to someone for a moment and then just tell them everything that bothers us and we can start to feel better :-)

Self-Esteem and Body Image

Everybody is different, people don't think the same way and they don't look the same.

That's one of the problems of teenagers and also people.

I know, also I want to be good at lots of stuff and I want to be good-looking at every moment,but I am not and I deal with it.

-Body image

People fell ugly all the time.They think that they are fat,too skinny,their hair is ugly,they are too short itc.I mean that's how I think too,but a while ago I wasn't thinking about that too much I don't know why but I didn't care how I looked or do I eat more sweets than I should I just let myself "free".I realised that nothing is what it looks like...I don't want frends to like me because I am "rich and skinny",beautiful and just care about my look I think that nobody  wants friends like that!And yeah,what I think is that we shouldn't care about our looks or anybody's,we should just keep learning how to be better person  and also show that to other people.

Also,we have someone boy/girl that we really like,but the usual  problem is that we are not their tipe or they don't like our behavior,but we shouldn't change because someone that we like doesn't like us back...we are gonna find another girl/boy to fall in love with..That's the biggest problem and also for all this that I wrote I just wanted to say that YOU have to believe in yourself,feel like you're the best and that nothing can stop you that's how I do it and just DON'T ever listen what other people say! 

P.S:I am going to write about other teenager problem, and please comment and tell me if you have a problem I will help you,Thanks  :-)

Friends

I don't know if it's just me but I kind of have problem with finding friends.

No,don't think that I don't have someone to go out with and have fun, I don't have someone that I can tell everything to, especially problems and secrets...

I had one friend, well then I taught that she will be my friend no matter what,when I was with her I would just feel that nothing could end our friendship,but I was wrong...Then also you realise how life can be really hard, and you know that quote :Beautiful things never last...Before I taught no that doesn't mean nothing but when you're growing up you learn more things, so that's something good in life!I am not just saying that there are no true friends, there are but you have to find them! I don't know, after that I was feeling lonely all the time, then I started blogging and feeling better, I mean it's just weird to share something like this with a stranger but in a good way! :-) 

The whole point of this is that you really have to think with  who are you friends with....And also if you have a new friend DON'T tell her secrets at the beginning just wait sometime and know her/him better...

How to choose a career?!

So, for my third post I wanted to write about career..Choosing a career is not an easy job.We all have our dreams and we all have talents so that's something we want to do in life.I meant that, for example I really want to be an actress and I want  to do that in my life,but I live in a country where acting is not developed.That is a problem because that is something that distracts me from acting.But then I realised why not just fight for my dreams.I was thinking also on making videos on YouTube,I know there are lots of youtubers today..,but why not just try and film something,maybe people will like it.
People are scared of things like this...I was thinking about that lately, people have a lots of interesting stuff to share with other people but they are scared of "haters"..In life there won't be a lot of people who will like something that you do,but Hey remember! If you don't have haters,then you are doing something wrong in your life!Comment  and let me know what you want to be in life and also,ask me some tips if you have a problem that includes  this title :-)